On the annual celebration of St Valentine’s Day this year, honour yourself by expressing and celebrating LOVE. To know what love truly is, you need to experience its many unique forms that help to inspire, shape and influence your life. Taking a moment to reflect on the rich experiences of love in your life is a wonderful way to spend February 14th. Flowers, chocolates and novelty gifts are entirely optional.
Unconditional Love
As children, our first experience of love is of the unconditional familial kind. The love that is expressed by parents, siblings and relatives, allows you to build a solid foundation for your own loving style, as you mature. While every child deserves to be loved and nurtured, not everyone grows up feeling that they received love that was truly unconditional.
If the supply of unconditional love in your life was lacking in quality and quantity, it’s never too late to get the love balance right. On Valentine’s Day, express unconditional love to your partner, children, family and friends. The more you give love, the more you will receive in return. The love that you feel for your pet is also unconditional familial love, so spoil them with attention and cuddles too.
Open your heart and offer patience, support, and words of encouragement to anyone who needs to feel loved. A true test of your unconditional loving is doing this for someone who has let you down, hurt you, or wronged you in some way. Giving unconditional love to someone who needs it will reward you with a warm feeling in your heart.
Platonic Love
Love that is deeply bonding is commonly known as brotherly (or sisterly) love. Platonic love helps us to establish strong bonds and friendships that stand the test of time. For people who don’t have close and loving relationships with family members, the platonic love that is shared with best friends can be greatly beneficial in filling the love void.
On Valentine’s Day, cherish the connection that you have with your BFF. If you’re both single and looking for love, make a date to celebrate how lovable you are and honour your individual unique qualities.
Romantic Love
Romantic love can be as sweet and innocent as a crush, or as intense as passionate intimacy that involves chemistry and a strong physical and/or emotional attraction. While romantic love that makes butterflies dance in your belly can certainly develop into a reciprocated love that is bonding, it also has the power to turn into obsessive mania.
If you’re loved up and enjoying a relationship that is blissfully romantic, maintaining good communication will help you to keep the channel of love open and flowing. If the love in your romantic partnership feels a little stale, make an effort to inject some fun into it on Valentine’s Day. Take your partner on a ‘first date’ and romance them like you did back in the day.
To attract a healthy love relationship, if you’re single, it’s essential that you learn how to love and appreciate yourself, before you give that attention to someone else. Let go of the emotional baggage of previous failed relationships, and heal your broken heart so that you don’t attract more of the same.
Self-Love
To be able to build a foundation that allows you to form and sustain harmonious and loving relationships with others, you first need to master self- love. When you truly love yourself, you accept your quirky traits and perceived flaws, and you see beyond your reflection in the mirror. Self-love empowers you to remove all of the labels that others have attached to you to make you feel ‘not good enough’ or ‘not worthy or deserving of love’.
This Valentine’s Day, give yourself the love you have always wanted.
True Love
Every woman (and man) deserves to experience love that is real, true and lasting. As love is really all about the vibe, it’s crucial that you raise your energetic frequency vibration to the highest level possible to align with your perfect love match. To get into the optimal frequency, be prepared to dump all of your emotional baggage, and to let go of people in your life who don’t value or honour you.
Consulting an experienced psychic reader can help you identity what’s blocking your path to true love happiness. That tall, dark, handsome stranger lurking on your life path will align with you once you practice self-love and raise your love vibe.
A love tarot spread can also provide insights into a current romantic relationship, so that you can understand if it has the potential to go the distance in love.
Tarot cards have been used by mystics as early as the late 18th century for divination purposes. Today, millions of people have looked to this pack of cards for answers in their spiritual or mental quests. For people who need some guidance or direction in their love lives, there’s the love tarot. Perhaps, you have met a special someone and you want to know if the person is your soulmate? On the other hand, you may be feeling drained in your love relationship and you wish to know what’s ahead. Love tarot can show the way.