It’s everyone’s deepest desire to meet The One and to blissfully fall in love forever. No matter how much you may want to find ever-lasting love, there are simply no guarantees that you won’t end up attracting a relationship that is toxic and unhealthy.
Love is undoubtedly a magical experience. Unfortunately, before a deeply loving, nurturing, supportive, and harmonious relationship lands in your lap, there’s always the possibility that you will attract heartache.
To minimise the pain and trauma of falling in love and having your heart broken, it’s essential that you open your heart to loving in a healthy way…
Let Go Of Expectations
It’s perfectly natural to have some expectations of what makes a romantic relationship idyllic, especially if you’re actively looking for love or you are just beginning to get to know someone new. Women, in particular, have a habit of creating a fairytale romance fantasy in their minds and are frequently disappointed when the connection doesn’t deliver.
Let go of expectations, and learn to look at love in a new way. Think of it as an ‘experience’ that offers opportunities to practice kindness, compassion, and appreciation, rather than something that defines whether you’re loved-up or single.
Consider Your Needs
During the honeymoon phase of a relationship you’ll go out of your way to please your partner and to put their emotional needs above your own. It’s not possible to have a healthy relationship if your needs are ignored and you have no boundaries.
In order to attract the kind of love that you long for, you first need to have that type of relationship with yourself. Don’t allow anyone to take advantage of you or to push beyond your boundaries. If you’re in a relationship, treat your partner in a manner that you wish to be treated yourself. If this is not reciprocated, it’s time to re-evaluate whether or not it’s healthy to stay in the relationship.
Give Love Space To Grow
Some love relationships are so intense that you completely lose yourself. A relationship that is possessive or obsessive has no room for love to grow. Negative emotions like jealous, envy, fear, guilt, and apathy, stifle love and don’t allow it to blossom and transform into something wonderful.
Create more space for love in your life by opening your heart and expressing your emotions and feelings. If you’re single, communicate the healthy love that you have for your family and friends, so that it can naturally expand.
Own Your Happiness
If you don’t want to have your heart broken, don’t put your happiness in someone else’s hands. Your partner is not responsible for making you happy. How you ‘feel’ is completely down to you. As a spiritual being, you are full of love and joy and eternal bliss. Unfortunately, this is something that we all forget when we incarnate on the Earth.
Happiness is the natural state that makes your soul vibrate. When you own it, you’re no longer needy for love. You will effortlessly attract love that’s on your level and a healthy loving relationship that ticks all of the romantic expectation boxes.
Practice Makes Perfect
It’s easy to get comfy in any kind of relationship. Familiarity can often make your standards slip. To avoid taking your partner for granted and to keep the love spark ignited, it’s crucial that you practice loving on a daily basis.
Expressing your feelings, making an effort over the little things, and being happy in yourself, are practical ways in which you can perfect your healthy love style.
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